Example person is depressed because they cannot get work and are trans.
They come out and transition and feel elated! Their depression diminishes and they are on top of the world - they 'blame' being trans for the depression.
They have surgery and are discharged, and sit and look at the wall, they no longer have the transissues to blame. They still cannot get a job.
They blame the transissues and transphobia for not being able to get a job. Nothing has changed. They are now depressed and wonder if they were better off before transition? The 'burden' of being female is only shown once there is no route back (surgery). They realise just how easy they had it before in social terms and could not get work even then. Being a woman has increased the liklyhood they will get work as now they no longer have male-privilege and are judged by their appearance far more. Their family may have split which at least supported them before.
Just sayin'
Alone and unemployed they sit looking at an aging female face wondering "WHAT THE HELL HAVE I DONE!!!"
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