How would my GP be able to state that when I'm still awaiting an official diagnosis? Will that not matter to them?The letter from your doctor must be similar to that shown below. It must state that the change you are undergoing is permanent.
The whole system they have still seems a little strange to me. I spoke to my psychologist about my gender identity at the middle of last year, I then seen a nurse at the Gender Dysphoria Service 6 months after that, and now I have to wait another 4 to see a doctor for my 'official' diagnosis. Over which time, I've been told if I change my name and the way I dress day-to-day and I'll be allowed HRT pretty much as soon as the diagnosis is given. Great – but surely the absence of an official diagnosis or contact with the service makes that more difficult than it needs to be.
I'm curious to know what stage of transition you were all at when you got around to changing your name. I'm still using my old name when communicating with strangers, largely because I'm presenting as male most of the time. I'm taking the advice of a number of people on this forum by taking things slowly—adopting a more androgynous look—but the nurse I seen left me a little puzzled over my current appearance. She said I 'looked feminine' but suggested my clothing might not be feminine enough. I suppose my daily clothes still are on the 'boyish' side (t-shirt and skinny jeans), but what am I supposed to be dressing like right now? I asked for clarification on what would be expected from me by others in the service, but she seemed rather unsure herself.
I know I'm rambling a bit, but I'm feeling rather cut off from others given my difficulty in getting through to my local support group. In one ear I'm being told 'Slowly, slowly catchy monkey' and in the other I'm being told 'You'll have to pick up the pace if you want any kind of treatment'.