I'm enjoying the mental image of Jane shimmying under a bamboo pole, knees akimbo.

Bravissimo only do D cup and larger so unless Jane has had a very dramatic growth spurt since last I saw her, I don't think it's very appropriate.

I always thought Marks and Spencer's were the high authority on bras. Your mum taking you to M&S to be measured was rather a rite of passage amongst my peers circa 1991.

I think the best advice I could give you is to go out and make some FTM friends, especially ones with girlfriends. Go hang out with them and bring your girlfriend along. She needs some role models. Once she sees other people referring to you as 'him' and 'he', she should start copying them. She'll r...

Yeah, it's 4.30am and I'm still awake and lurking on here. I'm hoping this whole Nineties revival I keep hearing about takes off and it will again become socially acceptable to be a slacker again. A little bit of part-time work, little bit of studying, little bit of arty posturing. <sigh> Ah, nostal...