You've probably got it all sorted now, but why not go the previous day and stay over? I've just looked on the travelodge website, and there's rooms in Hull starting from £19 - probably much less than the petrol would cost for someone to take you there and back!

What do you mean, you HAVE to take T? You can transition without taking T, and live as male, if you prefer - but you won't grow a beard, or leg hair, or any of the other effects that T gives you without T! Leg hair? I've had leg hair since I was 10 or something. Always assumed everyone got that, on...

What do you mean, you HAVE to take T? You can transition without taking T, and live as male, if you prefer - but you won't grow a beard, or leg hair, or any of the other effects that T gives you without T!

As regards singing for FTMs, it's worth having a look at this article.

I had the mother and father of all bleeds a few days after starting T - I have no idea where I would have been in my cycle as it was very irregular anyway. Apparently it's quite common to have an absolutely massive red death just after starting T - fortunately I'd read this somewhere otherwise it wo...