Forced to not wear girl clothes
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Forced to not wear girl clothes
I told my girlfriend years ago that I like to wear women's clothes. She was OK with it and thought it was kind of kinky. As the years go by I go to counseling and start to talk to people about it. Then she leaves me. I'm lost. She tells me she won't come back till I'm normal again. So I do. We have a baby together now. She caught me before he was born wearing panties. She freaked out and started yelling you're a man. Over and over. She told me she will take my son and leave. What do I do? I feel dead inside?
Re: Forced to not wear girl clothes
I'm sorry that I can offer little consolation or constructive advice.
All the evidence suggests if a man does have trans urges, it does not ever go away.
Attempts at aversion therapy etc at best do not work and at worst introduce other worse problems.
The Beaumont Society has groups for support and advice for the families of transvestites/crossdressers which might help reassure her and also realise that she is far from alone.
Couples reach various solutions, from full acceptance (....as she apparently had at the start) to "don't ask, don't tell" where the male partner continues as before, in secret. The difference being that the wife does not ask awkward questions, avoids coming home without warning etc.
I hope that you can sort things out.
All the evidence suggests if a man does have trans urges, it does not ever go away.
Attempts at aversion therapy etc at best do not work and at worst introduce other worse problems.
The Beaumont Society has groups for support and advice for the families of transvestites/crossdressers which might help reassure her and also realise that she is far from alone.
Couples reach various solutions, from full acceptance (....as she apparently had at the start) to "don't ask, don't tell" where the male partner continues as before, in secret. The difference being that the wife does not ask awkward questions, avoids coming home without warning etc.
I hope that you can sort things out.
Contact me privately via "steffi AT transgenderzone DOT com" Click to see Who I am
To those who understand, I extend my hand
To the doubtful I demand, take me as I am
Not under your command, I know where I stand
I won't change to fix your plan, Take me as I am (Dreamtheatre - As I Am)
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Some (mostly rough) tracks of my prior life as a guitarist up on You-Tube, if you want to check them out
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To those who understand, I extend my hand
To the doubtful I demand, take me as I am
Not under your command, I know where I stand
I won't change to fix your plan, Take me as I am (Dreamtheatre - As I Am)
my trans-ness viewtopic.php?f=40&t=5401&p=45640#p45351
Some (mostly rough) tracks of my prior life as a guitarist up on You-Tube, if you want to check them out
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8QKYu ... zkA/videos
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