I would say I'm new to the forum but I joined a few years back, (well to the old site) but have not been on since. Felt to depressed, but I am determined to make changes.
I have been searching the internet for quite some time now and wanted to ask a few more questions which I'm hoping you can help me with.
Being trans male ... I am very unhappy with my chest I do use binders which help alot but would like to have the top surgery done and was wondering as I have not started T yet can I still go for the surgery? Also are there good quality surgeons in the UK? Also how long would this take privately?
When I was 18 I got myself on the internet and started chatting to people in my desired roll and after 2 years built up the confidence to actually meet some of these peeople. Now 26 i have a vast amount of friends who only know me as Toby, I have always dressed and acted in my desired roll, since being a child. I would like to say I have been living as Toby, I tend to always socialise with the people who know me as the real me, with the use of binders and packing, using male toilets the whole shabang basically
but of course the physical side of things are still getting me down, and really want to start pushing forward with the top surgery.
But of course as nothing is official I am still me but still known as my birth name obviously with family and work colleagues.
Did actually have a few councelling sessions a couple of years back with Rico Paris, when I seriosuly hit rock bottom, with depression self harm, locking myself away etc
Thanks in advance.